Everyone – even someone who will never have sex – has a sexual orientation. Sex is about what people do, but sexual orientation is about what people are. It includes things like what kind of person we feel sexually & romantically attracted to – if we’re attracted to anyone this way. Words like straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, and asexual describe some sexual orientations.
When we were born, the doctor probably said “It’s a boy!” or “It’s a girl!” Gender Identity is about how well we feel these words (boy, girl, man, woman) fit us right now. Do some words feel like they describe us better than others? Do none of them feel right? Words like male, female, cisgender, transgender, and gender fluid describe some gender identities.
This stuff can be fascinating. It can be complicated. We may wonder: Can gender identity or orientation change? Do I need permission to be gay? Are some sexual orientations and gender identities better than others? What does LGBTQ mean? What’s with the Pride Parade anyway?
Let’s have a conversation!
Videos
Hi, I’m Dee – A Real Talk Comic Book
Resources
Facebook-based friendship & support group for LGBTQIA2S+ folks labelled with intellectual disabilities.
A group for LGBTQIA2S+ people living with chronic health conditions and/or disabilities.
Care, surgical planning, and peer and community support for trans people across the province.
Vancouver area group for gay, bisexual, transgender, Two-Spirit and queer men.
Vancouver store that sells many sexual pleasure products like sex toys, vibrators, massagers, and lubricant.