Safer Sex

Riding in a car is never 100% safe. Neither is eating a sandwich. That doesn’t mean we should never do these things. It does mean we should consider taking common-sense precautions, like wearing a seatbelt, not riding with a driver who’s been drinking, not eating baloney that’s past its expiry date, and not swallowing our food too quickly while running with scissors.

Sex with another person is never 100% safe either. That doesn’t mean we should never do it. It does mean we should consider taking some precautions. But what exactly are we trying to prevent? Are some precautions more effective than others? How do we talk about safer sex or contraception (birth control) with our partners? How do we talk about it with the people who support us? Where can we get information about this stuff? Where can we get supplies?

Oh yeah – one last thing – masturbation is a SUPER SAFE way to feel sexual pleasure! There’s no risk of unplanned pregnancy or STIs.


Let’s have a conversation!

Videos

What is a Condom?

In this video by Planned Parenthood, they break down how to use a condom step-by-step. They also talk about how condoms protect you against sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and unwanted pregnancy, and where you can find them.

Resources

Support Info

A group for LGBTQIA2S+ people living with chronic health conditions and/or disabilities.

Greater Vancouver’s queer, trans, and Two-Spirit community centre.

How to stay safer during sex, even if you’re not following all of Bonnie Henry’s rules…

Tips on, dating, sexual pleasure, and safety during COVID.

A print-based, plain-language resource about online sexual harassment and your legal rights.

Support for women, trans, two-spirit, and nonbinary folks who have experienced violence.

Support for males who have been sexually abused at some time in their lives.

A print-based resource for folks living on their own for the first time.

24/7 free, confidential support for victims of crimes across B.C. and the Yukon.

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