Pleasure

It’s amazing how our bodies are able to feel pleasure – whether it’s the taste of ice cream, the feeling of petting a kitten, the sound of our favourite song, the smell of jasmine flowers, the sight of a beautiful sunset, or the emotions we experience when we spend time with a good friend.

Sex can also be pleasurable – whether we are masturbating by ourselves or having sex with someone else. But it can be harder to talk about sex than about ice cream or sunsets. So we might wonder: Should sex feel good for us? How do people make sex feel good / better? Is it ok for us to have sexual pleasure by ourselves (also known as masturbation)? What should we do if sex is pleasurable for our partner but not for us? How do we get comfortable with feeling this kind of pleasure if bad sexual stuff has happened to us? Who are the right people to ask about these things?

Let’s have a conversation!

Videos

Talkback Video – Sex Toys

In this video, Larissa gives us a suggestion on a topic we should cover in our videos: sex toys. Specifically, helping people feel comfortable buying and using sex toys in their own lives.

Resources

Support Info

In this issue, Zora advocates for her daughter.

In this issue, Millie advocates for her outreach client.

In this issue, Ahmed advocates for his brother.

Stories about supporters stepping up and advocating for the sexual health of people with cognitive disabilities.

Friendly, encouraging places to get contraception and safer sex supplies, to get tested or treated for STIs, or to get access to abortion services.

If you don’t have a sexual health clinic nearby that’s convenient or accessible, you can also get STI testing at any Walk-In Clinic.

Friendly spaces for youth, often offering: free contraception, STI testing & treatment, pregnancy testing & general sexual health info.

cognitive disabilities sexuality conversations

Original stories featuring folks talking about aspects of their sex lives – dating, pleasure, identity, where they get info & support. You can view them as videos, or you can […]

A friendship group aimed at people with cognitive disabilities in Greater Vancouver.

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