If you’re thinking about having sex with someone, it’s a good idea to have a conversation first. This website has a handy list of important topics to discuss. Just remember the word “STARS”:
STI Status
Turn-ons
Avoids
Relationship Intentions / Expectations
Safer Sex Practices
Click here to see a Ted Talk and find out more about the STARS tool.
(The website also advertises classes, but you don’t need to sign up for them if you don’t want to. Most of the information is on the page and in the video for free.)